Those who are confused about their gender are suffering from a mental illness, according to the American Psychiatric Association. The people who are suffering from GENDER DYSPHORIA need intervention and professional psychiatric assistance, not encouragement.
A diagnosis for gender dysphoria is included in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), a manual published by the American Psychiatric Association.
Imagine standing before an awesome and infallible God, and trying to convince Him that he made a mistake when he created you! Pray for these people.